There are four important steps to advise a child.
1. Advise the child when the child is not in a state of anger, advise the child when his heart was calm. Advise the child while in anger will not be heard but instead will add to anger and irritation.
2. Use positive words when advising children. Avoid using negative words such as not, do not, etc., because the human heart is essentially could not accept negative words.
3. Advise children with lower body position of the child, such as child sits squat and then we started to advise him.
4. Advise children with fine words do not rant and rave. The words are fine supporting children to want to listen to our advice.